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Mitchell to Charleville
Goondiwindi to Mitchell
Fireside blog posting tonight, but brrrr – starting to get very chilly so might have to move inside soon! It is supposed to drop to 2 degrees tonight – needless to say we have lots of layers on! We are free camping again tonight at Neil Turner Weir on the banks of the Maranoa River just outside Mitchell. There are quite a few other campers here as it is a very scenic spot and campfires are allowed. We would love to put the kayaks in for a paddle in the morning but not sure if we will be brave enough – I don’t fancy taking a dip when it is this cold!
Wynnum to Goondiwindi
Hooray – we finally made it on the road and out of Brisbane today and as promised we sang our Zac Brown Band theme song ‘Free’ at the top of our voices as we were leaving – it was a nice feeling! Video below – please excuse the singing – we’ll work on it!
The Big Day is Here!
Well – we did finally hit the road and make it out of Samford today at about 1pm …………………. and we made it all the way to Wynnum – about 45 minutes away!
It took us quite a while this morning to get organised enough to get away – and while we are still not packed properly – we do feel like we are a bit more sorted in the camper. We bid farewell (sniff, sniff) to the Hanstede and Sheil families after finally gathering up the last of our belongings!
Matt’s younger brother James flew back in from five months in the UK today so we decided to have a last night in Brisbane staying with Carla (Matt’s cousin) and Lachie (thank you soooooo much guys!) for a night, who hosted a Fealy/Neary cousins BBQ for us all to catch up. It’s taken a trip around Australia to make us come over to the other side of Brisbane for a visit!!!
We are very disappointed that our little Toyota Yaris didn’t sell today. We had a buyer interested from Thursday and he even called at 7.30am this morning to say he was catching a bus from Toowoomba to come and buy it, but after running around to meet him in the city and checking to make sure bank’s etc would be open – he drove it and decided not to buy the car after all – sooo frustrating!. So we have gone with our plan F – which is for Matt’s little brother James to drive it back up to Far North Queensland for us next week and try to sell it up there for us over the next month or so. Aaaaargh, so annoying that it hasn’t sold before we head off on our trip – but fingers crossed it won’t take too much longer – otherwise our trip will be much shorter than we expected! We had hoped that the car would be sold before we left so we could hit the road ‘free agent’s with nothing to worry about, but I am learning (lesson number one for the trip) that best laid plans don’t always come through!!
While Matt took the Yaris into the city – I drove the car and camper to a spot just outside the city (I was not game enough to be driving the whole rig through the city!) and parked to wait for Matt to be hopefully dropped off and the car sold and driven away. While I was waiting I turned the car off – but did not remove the keys from the ignition which meant the car headlights stayed on. Consequently, when Matt returned – with an unsold car – he also found I had deadened the battery on the Prado – needless to say we were both happy campers at that point – not! Thankfully we had the switch to flick over to the second battery and we headed over to Wynnum at last!
The next unfortunate incident occurred as we were parking the car and camper out the front of Carla and Lachie’s house. Matt was reversing the car and camper up alongside the curb, and due to the fact that the car/camper are now much heavier – we have realised the mudflaps Matt made are too long – unfortunately this meant that as Matt was reversing – he ran over the mudflap and pulled the bumper off the back of the left hand rear tyre. Awesome. But we picked it up off the ground – threw it in the car – and decided to think about it tomorrow and enjoy our last night with family. And that is exactly what we did – a night with family has lifted our spirits.
We will hit the road for real tomorrow. We have no idea which way we are headed – except the general direction of West -ish. We think we will just ask the kids in the morning ‘left or right’ as we leave Brisbane and see where that takes us. We’ll do some more sorting out at our next stop. We need to find a weigh-bridge as the camper and car feel very heavy and we need to see what weight we are actually sitting at – there may be some emergency dumping required!
It will be interesting to see where we pull up tomorrow! Some photos from our first day ……………
Happy 4th Birthday To Lexi
I know, I know – 2 blog posts in 1 night is a bit much but Lexi turned four today, and I wanted to record the ocassion for posterity! This birthday has been long awaited as ‘the day before our big trip starts’.
So, I know I am going to regret this when she uses it against us forever more, but it was not the greatest birthday event we’ve ever put together. To start with, aaaargh – I’m so going to regret admitting this – we haven’t yet bought Lex a present. Lucky for us friends and family had mailed some pressies down to us so she did have some goodies waiting on the camper table today for her when she woke up, but we just haven’t had time/figured out what we are getting her yet – terrible parents. I also didn’t make her a cake. Choosing a cake from the ‘Women’s Weekly’ cake book is a bit of a tradition for our kids, but I just couldn’t get there for Lex this year (but I did make cupcakes for her to take to Kindy on her last day on Wednesday so surely that counts for something?!?!). We didn’t have a party for her – she asked all day ‘when are my friend’s coming over?’ – ouch! And here’s the worst bit ………. I organised her 4yr old vaccination needles for today – yep – a needle in each arm for her birthday because I wanted them done before we hit the road. We are never going to be able to live this birthday down!
Despite all this she still had a pretty good day I think! She was spoilt rotten with gifts from friends at school and my wonderful workmates at BMR had even organised a cake and candles and a bag of Freddo Frogs for her when I dropped in today to get some paperwork signed – so grateful to the BMR crew! We finished the day with a Pizza dinner and a Coles mudcake with the Hanstede family.
I’m going to finish below by inserting the email Matt sent out to the friends and family after Lex was born, just thought I’d include it here as a record for ever more – some of the ‘in-family’ speak won’t make a lot of sense to those of you who’ve never actually met us but you’ll get the gist!
“Yes it’s a girl!!!
The story:
Yesterday morning Jess told me she was having contractions and keep my phone nearby. This has been the norm for a while now so honestly, I didn’t think anything of it. But then last night about 10pm Jess reckoned things were getting serious. Again, I didnt think anything of it. Sooo i fell asleep…. Then Jess wakes me at 0130 and says ‘I think we need to go’, I, didnt think anything of it. I figured i’d call Kate B to come round just incase. (Actually thinking we might need to give Kate a couple of hours notice to, well, sober up, I mean it was Saturday night!) It rang out the first time so I figured I would have to post a comment on her Facebook to get her attention quicker, but we got ahold of her the second time. Soooo I went back to sleep. At 0400 Jess wakes me and says ‘I think we need to go…. NOW!’ This time there was some thing diferent in her voice, what would you call it….. hmmm…. Terror, yes, it was the subtle hint of terror in her voice that made me say, ‘oh alright, i’ll have a shower and we can go I guess’
So off we trot to the hospital, I was starving and wondered if it would be at all inappropriate to take a labouring wife to Hungry Jacks drive thru at 5am. Turns out it is. Who-da-thought? I don’t think the drive thru opperator will forget this day in a hurry!
So we walked into emergancy and the nurse took one look at Jess ‘walking’ towards her and grabed a wheelchair and an orderly and sent us far away from her. She had that ‘Hell no, I am not delivering a baby 20 mins from the end of my 12hr shift’ written all over her face! (Melissa, I am sure you know this face well!)
So the orderly, Pad Thai, got the job of wheeling Jess to level 5. The terror on his face was not quite as sublte as in Jess’s voice earlier.
On arrival at the lvl 5 baby factory, Karen Yates’ twin sister ushered us into suite number 1, which I thought was ironic, being that Jack was born in suite 3 and Lexi was to be born in suite 1.
Anyway, ‘our’ birth plan was simple. Eppi at the door thanks! Unfortunately, the public health system had other ideas because all the anesthetists were in theatre so Jess had to wait patiently. Now anyone who knows Jess, knows that patience it not one of her many strong qualities. Now imagine Jess, being patient, in the throws of labour…. yeah, and I still believe in the tooth fairy!
So I tried to slip Karen’s twin sister a ‘fiddy’ to get the eppi happening. Now even though Karen’s twin sister could take the AUD$50 back to ‘Un Zed’ and buy a new car or something, she didn’t seem interested. So I gave her what every New Zealander really needs, a copy of ‘The Dummies Guide to Rugby’ which I just so happened to have in my pocket. This got things moving along and before we knew it the anethisitist ‘McSteamy’ was ready to go. It seems Lexi had other ideas though because while McSteamy was trying to paint picasso on Jess’s back with antisepyic wipe, Jess ‘quietly’ mentioned that she had to push. Karen’s twin sister didn’t believe her and told her keep sucking the gas, Jess then even more ‘quietly’ mentione that she just pushed, Karen’s twin sister decided she had better have a look and low and behold there was Lexi sayin’ hello. One more push and she was out!Now, for all the women scanning this email for the details.Lexi in the pink corner has tipped the scales at 3.215 kg (7pound 1oz in yesteryear speak) Meaning she is officially the fattest of them all, and based on her instant attachment to the feed bags, she will probably maintain this title for a while. She was 49cm long (19 1/2 inches) with a head circumference to match the other girls in the house.
So both the ‘gals’ are doing really well, Jess has once again totally amazed me, and Karen’s twin sister as it turned out.
Now sorry about the photos, I have left the good camera at hospital so these are just from my phone. Better ones to come.Well off to the shot gun shop for me I guess……MattSo happy fourth birthday Lexi Lou – we’ll do better next year! Love you lots xoxoxox Mum, Dad & the boys.
The Night Before Departure
Exhausted. It is June the 1st tomorrow – a day that we have been seriously planning for over 18mths now. I wish I could say we are excited – and I know that we really are somewhere in there – but we are just soooo tired and emotionally drained. I know that we are sounding like big whingers and you’ll all be thinking ‘buck up – get into it!’, but I’m trying to truthfully record this adventure and dog tired is all we’ve got tonight. That and a whole lot of gratefulness for all the kindness’s we have been shown over the last couple of weeks.
We moved into the camper at ‘Camp Hanstede’ yesterday – in the pouring rain – we even sat down for dinner (kindly made for us by Stella – thank you!) and there was a huge clap of thunder and lightening – what the???? We’re really trying to take that as a good omen! When I say moved in to the camper – I mean we squeezed in amongst all the bits and pieces that we have no idea how we are going to make fit in here!
I honestly thought we would have time as we were moving out of the house to be packing the camper at the same time – didn’t happen! Then I thought – no worries – we will sort it all out while we are staying at the neighbours – didn’t happen. Now I am thinking that we are just going to jam it all in somewhere, hit the road tomorrow somehow and figure it all out as we get travelling. It is just time to get going and know that it will all come together. I thought I was being ruthless with my packing and that we would have no problems fitting it all in – I was very, very wrong!! Maybe we will just head to the beach somewhere and spend the weekend getting it all sorted – who knows? We’ll decide in the morning and that is the beauty of the trip I guess!
Matt finally finished work today – hooray!
The kids had their last day at school, which was surprisingly a little sad for them! Both the boys teachers did a lovely little farewell for them in class, a big thank you to Miss Jane, Mrs Donaldson and Mrs Blakey – wonderful teacher’s who have all been so supportive and helpful with putting together some materials to help with the kid’s schooling on the road.
We did also manage to get our spare tyre for Peter Prado sorted this week, the tear in the camper wall stitched up like brand new (great Canvas stitching place at Morayfield!) and all done in an hour for only $60, our mail redirection is on and we have just about said all of our goodbyes including a lovely afternoon tea with the Van Schoor family to check out how they have settled in to ‘our house’ – a little strange seeing it with a new family and looking so different, but also nice to see it so loved! The goodbyes have been tough – we will miss the wonderful friends we have established in Samford sooooooooo much! Our neighbours and friends have been like family to us over the last few years – particularly as most of our family live away – so big thank you shout out to the Seaborn, Sheil, English and Hanstede family’s who have been a big part of our lives over our time here – we will miss you!
So with all of the hard stuff out of the way, and no more work and school to worry about, things should start to feel a little easier. Off to bed now for some sleep and to wake to the start of our adventure, let the freedom begin!
PS. And finger’s crossed for sunshine in the morning so we don’t have to load up in the rain and pull the camper down wet!
1 Week to Go!
Where to start? I can’t really believe that this time next week we will already have spent our first few nights on the road! Very surreal that something we have been planning for two years is actually happening!!! I don’t think it had really sunk in that we were leaving until we saw the tow track struggling to lift the container filled with all of our belongings, onboard. Even more surreal is the fact that container is now sitting in Far North Queensland waiting for us to relocate up there at the end of our trip!
Last week was a huge week filled with the final (hooray!) packing and cleaning! I must say a huge thank you to my Mum who did the lion’s share of the cleaning of our house while I finished the packing and ran around after the kids. We were soooooo lucky she was here – it was a huge job in the end – we hadn’t realised how big our house was and how much wall space, blinds and windows there were to clean, and how lacking my housework had been!!! I don’t think our house has ever been cleaner – it was tempting to just move back in and live in it all sparkly and fresh! We managed to squish all off our belongings in to the container but only just!!
We moved in to our neighbours house last Friday, which is where we will spend most of this week, house-sitting, petsitting and childminding while they are away. The kids are having a ball but I am finding that washing, making lunches and breakfasts and dinners for five kids is testing my organisational skills hehehehe! We were so appreciative though to have a house with a fridge, beds and carpet, a shed to put the camper in and dump all of our yet to be packed stuff, after camping out in our house for the last ten days or so! Eeeek – I am now a bit worried about how I am going to last on the road if I felt this grateful to be in a fully functional house after only 10 days of ‘semi camping’!!!!!
We handed over our keys on Saturday to the new residents of ‘our house’, which was a relief on one hand that the packing/moving was over but sad to being saying goodbye to our home on the other. It was very strange seeing a removal truck there today and turning into the driveway across the road is very strange too!! Saturday afternoon was spent enjoying the freedom of not having a looming deadline and a mountain of work to do!
On Sunday we headed to the local pub for a very laid back farewell lunch with friends and family. I need to write a seperate post on how grateful we are to all the friends and family that have been soooooo good to us over the last 5 years that we have lived in Samford. We feel so thankful to you all and hope that you will know how much we appreciate your kindness and support as we have prepared for this trip! We got some very clever and thoughtful gifts including some handmade place-mats for each of us to use in the camper, itunes cards for the kids, a care package of snacks, wipes, and pencils, along with some lovely cards.
This week is still super busy! We need to pack the camper – everything is currently in our neighbour’s house or shed and now needs to go into the camper – there still seems to be a lot of ‘stuff’ depsite my best efforts to be ruthless in my trip packing! I hope it all fits in!! Today we had the roof racks for the car replaced by Tigerz11 as they were rusting! Hopefully this one will be ok!
Tomorrow we need to take a panel of the camper wall over to have a tear repaired, as well as have our spare tyre fitted to the Prado rim we were generously given as a loan for the trip. Other than that lots of small jobs like finalising our mail redirection, last meetings with the kids teacher’s, finalise car and camper insurance, buying a new camping chair each for Matt & I, some grocery shopping for the road, haircuts. beauty treatments, organise a present for Lex for her birthday, birthday cupcakes for kindy and oh I don’t know, heaps more stuff that I can’t remember!! Oh, and the small detail that we still haven’t sold our little Toyota Yaris which is the petrol money for our trip – very stressful! And we still haven’t found a home for our cat Slinky yet either!! Nothing like going down to the wire I guess!!! We are still planning to leave Samford on Saturday, the 1st of June, but will probably only make it over to the other side of Brisbane at this stage as we are hoping to say hello to Matt’s little brother who is flying back in to Australia that day after nearly five months in Europe.
So close now and we are getting very excited!!!
Anybody able to adopt or foster our cat Slinky?
Or want to buy our little car?
http://www.carsales.com.au/private/details/toyota-yaris-2010-14833838
Farewell to Matt from Skroo Turner – Flight Centre Limited
Farewell to Matt from Skroo Turner – Flight Centre Limited
We have had a really great weekend, successfully moving out of our house, a lovely farewell lunch today with great friends and family and the first of some tough ‘goodbyes’. I have lots to share about the last week but am just too tired tonight.
Instead – I wanted to share a blog post from Skroo Turner with a farewell to Matt from Flight Centre – it has definitely been a journey at FCL over the last 10 years – some lows but lots of highs too!! We are grateful for the opportunities Flight Centre has given our family and Matt’s time there will certainly not be forgotten!
2 Weeks to Go!
Well, thought I’d better do a quick post so you all know we are still alive – just – and we haven’t decided to call the trip off just yet! We have however, spent the last week arguing over whose dumb idea it was to head off around Australia in a camper van for 8 months – especially heading off in the middle of winter! We have decided that we never, ever, ever want to do this moving gig again – the next move will be it!
Having said all that – we are getting there – the container is just about full, the house is mostly empty and we are probably a third of the way through the cleaning. It hasn’t been all bad – I am finished up at work – yippppeeee (I will miss you though BMR crew!!) and my mum is here visiting (ok – not so much visiting as slave labour, but nice to have her here all the same!) and it does feel good to have done a bit of a sort of our life possessions (probably not ruthless enough)! We have been feeling very grateful for the kind friends we have around us! Big thanks to Michelle for dropping over a yummy batch of freshly baked muffins on the weekend, it was a big lift when I was feeling pretty over it all and wondering how on earth we would get it all done! Also thanks to Luke for giving Matt a hand to lift the really heavy stuff after I went on strike, cried, and said ‘I wasn’t a man and I couldn’t lift any more’! And thanks to Luke and Duncan for the loan of the trailers again – we should have bought shares in those trailers!! We really appreciate all your kindness neighbours and friends!
With hopefully only a few more days of stressful cleaning and packing to go to make our ‘handover keys’ deadline on Saturday – a little bit of excitement is starting to creep in! I can’t wait for next week when we will just get to focus on finalising all the packing into the camper! Less than 2 weeks to go!
The muscles are very sore from all the lifting and carrying and mum and I have to get back to work – tackling the walls in the lounge room tonight so must drag ourselves away from the fire and get back to it! Hopefully the next post will see us all moved out!! Anybody got any good cleaning tips for us????
Coral Bay Tragedy
We have been given a very harsh reminder over the last couple of days, that things can go wrong when travelling in remote areas. A reminder that we need to be careful and extra vigilant while travelling. A reminder that there is a serious side, and some risk to our adventure that we must always keep in the back of our minds while we explore some of the ‘not so travelled’ parts of our country.
Those of you in Australia have probably heard the sad news about the travelling family at Ningaloo Reef, this is an article from ‘The Australian’ online;
Police name couple in Coral Bay tragedy
The mother who drowned while snorkelling at WA’s Ningaloo Reef has been named as Kathreen Ricketson. Source: AAP
THE mother who drowned while snorkelling at Western Australia’s Ningaloo Reef has been named as Canberra woman Kathreen Ricketson, as the search for her partner Rob Shugg continues.
The body of Ms Ricketson, 41, washed up at Elle’s Beach south of Coral Bay on Wednesday afternoon as her two children, a 13-year-old girl and 10-year-old boy, watched.
Mr Shugg, 48, is still missing despite a massive air, sea and land search on Thursday.
WA police said the couple and their two children were on their dream trip at the beach with another family they had befriended on their travels.
The couple’s son raised the alarm after realising his parents were in trouble when he went into the water to swim with them and saw them face down.
The other family activated an emergency beacon just after 4pm (WST), south of the coastal hamlet near Ningaloo Reef, which alerted authorities.
Police said there were failed attempts to resuscitate Ms Ricketson, and Mr Shugg disappeared before he could be recovered.
“It must have been horrific. It must be any child’s worst nightmare,” Inspector Dominic Wood said.
There were no evident injuries on the woman’s body, police said, seemingly ruling out a shark attack.
Family members from Tasmania flew to WA as the search continued.
Expert police divers travelled from Perth to help the land and sea search for the missing man, assisted by the Department of Environment, State Emergency Service (SES), Volunteer Marine Rescue Service (VMRS) and Coral Bay Volunteer Sea Search and Rescue Group.
Senior Constable Barney Hutchison, from WA Water Police, said hopes were dimming as time passed.
“The missing man has been in the water a long time and hopes of finding him fade with each passing hour,” he told ABC radio.
“We have been in contact with the family and they’re making their way over to WA from Tasmania.
“But as I said, we are really hoping to get a favourable outcome if we can.”
Ms Ricketson’s website said she and her husband were planning to write a book about their travels around the country.
“The book is not just any old travel book. It will be part on the road memoir, part family camping adventure how-to, but mostly it will be a whole bunch of fun projects that can be done in a day or a weekend by those who want to get away from it all and reconnect with their families,” Ms Ricketson wrote.
On a blog, Ms Ricketson described the trip to Ningaloo as a “dream come true”.
“We are bush camping at a station on Ningaloo reef, Western Australia. A dream come true – is that totally corn ball?” she wrote.
My heart goes out to this family. A fund has been set up to help support their children, you can find the details here http://whipup.net/2013/05/17/how-you-can-help/.
I really don’t know what to say except to send a big virtual ‘hug’ and condolences from the Fealy Family to all of those who knew and loved this family.
Stay safe out there to all of those currently travelling!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox
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